Dating different men
You get to CHOOSE if he is the right man for you, and have the time to find out who he is and how he will treat you.THE RIGHT WAY TO TAKE THINGS SLOWLY Everyone tells you to “take things slow,” but how on Earth are you supposed to do that when you’re head over heels for someone? There’s no point in trying to slow things down with a man when he’s the only one you’re dating. But if you keep dating other men, you are instantly able to take it slowly.
Dear April Masini," I am dating three different men and feeling a bit conflicted about it.Your schedule is busy with other dates and activities so that you’re automatically not always available to any one man, and it also gives you time to catch your breath and reflect on what he is revealing to you about himself.OPENING THE DOOR FOR PLEASANT SURPRISES I’m sure you’ve heard that you should “throw out the checklist” and not be too picky when it comes to men and dating.Instead, keep your options open to keep your sanity and remind him that you are a prize to be won.When you stop over-investing too quickly, you’ll start getting the kind of affection and attention you crave.