Dating man 10 years older than you
When we first met it was a minor adjustment, in the initial dating period it didn’t matter at all, and now that we’re settled into a serious and committed relationship the difference is more substantial.Jordan wants to buy a house, while I’m still feeling stoked to have my own apartment.As Jordan and I got to know each other better I realized how comfortable I was around him, he made me laugh, he never pressured of pushed me physically (in fact our first few dates I didn’t even realize were dates, oops) and I felt as if he understood me on a deeper level.As someone who always feels misunderstood and misrepresented that last part was huge.
He saw past everything superficial and seemingly appreciated my soul.
), but rather that I couldn’t imagine our lives would mesh well together.
I was a full time nanny, he was the owner of a construction company.
Our problems are relative and the reality is, a lot of the day to day struggles you encounter in your early twenties may be different in your early thirties.
It can be difficult for your significant other to fully understand your perspective if they have been removed from the same struggles for years.